Thursday, December 3, 2009

What should i do?

I met this girl on myspace three months ago, and then i got her number, we been talking ever since, and now she claims she's in love with me, i know i don't love her, but i really like her, and i know she doesn't love me, it's just infatuation which is ok.



Anyways we plan on meeting next month, and she wants me to make love to her, she even wants us to be in a relationship, but i told her we will when i see her, but she wants it now, but isaid no because we never met.



She is not fake, because i know people that know her and seen her, i live in atlanta and she lives new york in my old neighborhood. For her birthday she called at 12 am so i can be the first to wish her happy b-day, she calls me everyday more than i call her, she bought me a shirt and mailed it to me, she sends love letters, and she made talk to her friends and family on the phone, her mothers knows of me but do not know where she met me, alot of guys that she use to mess with are mad cuz she tells them about me.



What should i do?

I don't think it will be the same once you guys meet in person. That's the way with Internet relationships. Meet her but don't have sex. If you feel you actually like her and at least would like to be able to be friends. Don't do anything like have sex with her to later tell her it can't be. She will hate you. That she talks about you is normal. Though you guys haven't met in person she feels a connection. You have to treat this as you would if she were in your same town and you guys were dating. Because she sees you as you being her boyfriend.



What should i do?

She sounds obsessed. I'd be careful. I don't think she'd cause you physical harm but she might be too emotionally attached already.



What should i do?

Sounds like shes really into you, but if you dont feel the same you have to tell her. Let her know its the friendship that you want, not to be her lover. Hopefully she will learn to live with ur decision but if she likes you that much it might take time.



What should i do?

I think that you two should meet in a public place so there are other people around and if things get messed up then it wouldn't be so awkward instead of alone



What should i do?

Well, you can't "make" chemistry. It's either there or it's not. She sounds like she may be very possessive, so you should tread this lightly. Be careful that you don't give false impressions, or lead her on. Try to emphasize friendship first, because that is the basis of any lasting relationship. She's trying to go straight to a relationship.

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