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ok, well my best friend moved to new york about 2-3 years ago. we talked a lot on aim and myspace, and we both found out we like eachother, i trust him with my life. he is the best boy i know. well he was supposed to visit next week bc his dad lives here, but it ends up that he cant come bc his dad has to go away on bussiness. he told me he really wants to see me, and asked me what my reaction would be when i see him i said i will probably be soooo happy and hug him, he said i cant wait for that hug! ... i was also going to kiss him on the cheek for the first time. well, he told me he loved me, now we have been friends for about 4 years. and i love him too.. but before my friend told me he loved me.. i liked another boy too, who was on my brothers baseball team.. he is also in my grade, and i am going to his school next year, bc i got transfered.. everyone incluing my parents and brother says he likes me .. and someone said he is going to ask me to be his girlfriend.. but i dont want..

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Ok, as a 21 year old, trust me when I say, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT LOVE IS!!! I'm sorry, but you just haven't had the chance to truly experience it. What you feel for Anthony is just the closest thing you've ever felt to love. But you don't love him and he doesn't love you. Don't worry, you'll figure that out.

But in the mean time, I would go for guys that are in your area. Don't focus on love yet, you're to young. Just have fun. Go on dates, be yourself, and just have a good time. Don't worry about getting involved romantically. It's to much drama and at your age, it WILL ALWAYS end in heartbreak. So just protect yourself by not getting to attached.

I hope you at least read this and think about my point. Anyone whose truly been heartbroken and/or in love, will probably agree with me.

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Your 'friend' is too far away. Don't escalate the relationship, keep it friendly. You are much too young for a long distance relationship. I know. I tried it when I was 15 and it did not work out.

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How far away are you and Anthony? Long distance relationships are bad. They hardly ever work out. Let Anthony know about the other guy and explain your feelings for him. I say you should go for the other guy and if it doesnt go good then you can always try a long distance relationship with Anthony.

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i think that you must choose the one you love more, if you trust anthony more than the other boy you should be with anthony it楹搒 my opinion.He is far away but if you love him you should overcome the ansiety(i don楹搕 know if thats the word)...

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well, it's your choice. if you like far away relation ships go with anthony. but if you like hanging out go with the other. i rather go with the other. try to get knowing him. there might be a chance when you can find out which one would suit you best.

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u need to take a look at what ur saying. ur friend holds all ur secrets ,he knows what makes u laugh,cry,angy,happy, those r all things that can make or breake u right?, and u have another guy who is"LCD",(local convienient dude)and he knows nothing about u but that ur his teamates sister,now u can get to know kokonut(jus kidding) and he can eventually get to know and understand u,but r u willing to invest all that time being that u r so old (13,please) i think anthony would b best and safest bet cuz if it doesnt work out he is far away and u still have koknut to fall back on.

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That's where someone needs to be mature and decide if a long distance relationship is even a reasonable thing. If your friend is a truly nice guy he wouldn't let you wait your life away for him becaue he should know that it's mean. However, I wouldn't think it would be so easy to date this other guy because you love your friend. I'd cool it on the relationship with the friend for a couple of years or until he's old enough or parents can reconsider where he should live.

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Well first of all, it doesn't matter how old you are. if your 20 doesnt mean you have the right to love then. everyone loves at a young age. now it seems like you have a much better relationship with anthony, and if you trust him with your life isnt that enough? also the boy that lives close to you would be VERY tempting i guess but be strong if you truley love anthony. even though anthony lives far away it seems like it could work out. ask anthony to be your boyfriend and since you have AIM and myspace seems like you guys are keeping good touch. but really its your choice. the boy you love and adore but lives far away. or the boy that you have SOME feelings for a lives close.

(i'd choose anthony but thats just me :P) haha hoped i helped at least a bit.

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well a long distance relationship is never good... especially when you're that young. Anthony may "love" you now but he a 13 year old and far away. He will find another girl easily where he lives now. I think you should still remain close friends. Talk online, phone, see him when he visits etc. When you transfer to the new school you should talk to the new kid there, find out what he's about. You may end up falling completely for him. When I was your age I went out with a kid in my grade for three years, until we were sophomores. We're still good friends and we're both 21 now. Who knows what will happen in the long run, but you are way too young to talk about forever now, just see what happens. Test the waters. Definitely don't waste your life on a long distance relationship because you're very young yet, stay friends with Anthony though.

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first of all,how r u doin'?,second,if u love someone and this is a genuine love not reckless emotions u rush ,u'll never seen another person bt u say u have loved another one or admired another one in de same time,u have to calm down and know ur real emotions and in ma opinion u have to follow ur mind like this guy who is in de baseball,everyone says that he loves u why don't u think of him if the other person is away i think that it is fantasy lovin someone who is far from u,in the end calm down,know ur real emotions bt try never to be deceived by outer emotions,bye dear

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Okay i understand were your coming from. I know its hard to make up your mind but if you don't do it soon you may end up losing them both. i know you having feelings for both of them but hun Anthony lives kinda far away.And you said you had feelings for Kekoa and he is the closest to you. I think you should tell Anthony that because of the distance you have that you can still remain friends but maybe we should start seeing people closer to us. It may be hard but you can't be torn between these two guys.