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the guy that i loved and liked for two years left to new york city for his dance dreams because hes a professional dancer in ballet. ive kept my tears inside and for some reson i cant cry but my heart is so hurt. and yes he knows how i feel about him and yes i have his cell phone and e-mail and hes my friend on myspace but my question is how do i get over the pain? i like him for 2 years! i think i love him! no i know i do!

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wow . well first keep in touch with him, and tell him how you feel, maybe someday after he fifills his dream, you twwo can be together , think about it, you want him to be happy and fifill his dreams ?

hope this helpsss :)

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Im not sure if you really do to be honest with you. You probably feel good around him and most of all are just used to him and thats why you miss him so much. As cliche as this sounds, keeping yourself busy is soo good for the soul. Go to the gym, start talking to people, go out with friend. Enjoy yourself.

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Invite a couple of friends over and get your favorite movie to take your mind off of it

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Why can't you get your booty over there with him? Does he feel the same about you? If he says he did then he doesn't love you enough if he can go and leave you like that. Go take a trip over there without him knowing and spy on him for a day or so and then surprise him and maybe give him an ultimatium?

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Can you afford to go to NY and tell him how you feel in person?

If not, look around. You might find someone for you where you are.

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hey if u want a boy then you have to be your self and express your true feeling. This shows the true feeling of how much u like a boy. Call him NOW and tell him how u feel.

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As time passes, a zillion miles becomes MUCH closer. Keep in touch with him, and be supportive. He's doing good things, and I'm sure you're proud of him. You'll miss his physical presence but you have ways to communicate, so all is not lost. When you can...save some money back and plan a visit to New York.

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Well if he's not coming back then, I suggest you go get yo man...

if not (comin back or if your not gonna go) then just try not to be selfish because each person must think of themselves then others..His dreams, and his heart is in NY, just hold on to his heart that is with you and let go of the pain.

sulk in some good Ben %26amp; Jerry ice cream, for about a week and keep moving.

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Focus on your own life. Try not to think about him %26amp; all the things about you/him. Think about what you want to do w/your goals, money, so forth %26amp; go forward w/them. Do it even if it seems like work. Eventually, it will be so common place, that you'll find that one day you haven't thought about your loss. Then, do it all again. It'll pass, believe me.

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that really sucks that he moved away when you feel so strongly for him and you should really keep in touch because even though he moved it doesn't mean hes gone... and def be happy that hes going after his dreams...and about the cant crying thing some people cry in there dreams to release feelings they cant express normally.... i mean that's not normally a skill you can turn on and off but idk it helps when that does happen....if he feels the same way about you then its worth working on but if he doesn't.... there is more then one person out there you can fall in love with and the pain will eventually go away..

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Let him go. Pain will simply take a little time to go away. You will find someone else and the pain will be gone someday. It's tough. Good luck.

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remain in contact with him on myspace and emails, also on the phone so you can hear his voice. think of him working away for a while and he will be back soon, does he know how you feel? if not i would tell him.

You will always think of him, you could be watching tv and see a advert that reminds you of him, but he is doing what he loves, he is happy you letting him go is the best thing you could do for him.

but please always keep in contact with him, send eachother silly photos too

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I know its hard to get over people...I had to do it many times! But there is special one for everyone! and im sure that u love the guy but if God wants you and him together to be together it will happen. But all you can do is live day by day and hope for the best!

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just move on and enjoy life and start talking to other guys!! here my email address if you need a friend!! efrain78223@yahoo.com

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there is no reason to feel sad, what you should do is dig deep in your soul and ask yourself if he is the one you want to be with for the rest of your life and is he really in love with you or his dancing. do not get in the way of his dream because it can make him dislike you ...be sure he feels the same way about you,that you feel about him.....and do not be sad, any one as beautiful as you should feel very happy..best wishes

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We don't get everything we want in life. Sounds cold doesn't it? I don't mean it that way, it's just the hard truth. He chose his life's path, and that path doesn't include you. You are right when you ask, "how do I get over the pain?" I'm going to tell you to do something, and I want you to DO IT. You need closure, you need to look forward not back. I want you to write him a 2 or 3 page letter. In this letter I want you to tell him you will miss him, that you love him, anything you want, but I want you to tell him goodbye. When you are done, tear the letter up and throw it away. DO NOT send it. Then I want you to e-mail me how you felt when you threw the letter away. This will help, honest.

EDIT ADDITION: I just want to say how impressed I am with the answers from this community. There are so many jerks out there, but look at your answers. Not a jerk amongst them! Some advice I agree with, some not, some may not agree with mine, but each one was sincere. Way to go all answerers!!

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just say strong, things happen for a reason you should be happy for him and he is probably missing you just as mush. Also remember you have to let something go to know if it was ever your, if he never comes back to you then he was never your to being. but he left for a good reason his doing something he likes and it's for his future maybe ever for your guys future know it's time for you to think about what you want to do, time for you to fallow your dream and if your meet to be you'll be together again soon, and also in the mean time be happy that your still in contact with him and you can rash him when ever and he can rash you when ever, your still there for each other.

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It will take time, but eventually you will begin to miss him less and less and get busy living your own life with new people crossing and and out of it. Just be greatful that you had the time you did with him and that he isn't dead or anything. There is always a possiblility that your paths will cross again.

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OK I am not trying to be a smart a**, this is a serious Q's

Do you know the difference between Like, Lust and Love?

Here's what I think, when you like someone you think about them alot and enjoy talking to them all the time.

When you Lust for someone you want to be with them 24/7 or at least close to that. There is this deep heavy lump in your chest when ever you think about them and you're thinking about them all the time.

Now Love, True Love is when you are so invested in their happiness that you would promise to never see them again and keep the promise just to save them heartache, just to keep them safe or to make sure they are never hurt and you know it will kill you to never see them agan but it is worth it to know they are safe, happy and protected. Mothers would do it for their kids and everyone has to face some situation at least once but remember you didn't have to promise never to see him again but you do have to get out of his way so he can do what he has to and pray that both of you are happy in the end wether it is together or with someone else.

IF YOU TRUELY LOVE HIM thats what's important right? that he is happy

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Mandy, you sound like a really nice person. I'm sure that if he left to persue his first love, ballet, then I'm positive there are lots of guys who would use you like a queen. There are plenty of fish in the ocean, so don't despair over one that would rather dance than be with you. I know 2 years is quite a while, but you need to think of you for a change. I bet he'll do just fine, so I'd get out and let some real hunk sweep you off your feet, which likely won't take long. Go have some fun with friends that like you just the way you are. Life is too short to pine away for someone who is doing what HE wants. Go get 'em girl !!!

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what stops u from moving to NYC if he feels same about you??

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that is very sad, i went through the same thing and my bf moved to canada, it was very hard but you never know what will happen, at least you can still keep in touch with him, even though it will be a long distance relationship, does he love you ? if he really does maybe he wont be able to live so far away ! give it some time and see , anything can happen when you believe !

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Go and have sex with somebody.....Make sure its good