Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

you see i met this guy thu myspace but the thing is he is in new york and i am in tx. and its like i am in love i think.we call and talk to each other every day. but lately it seem like i am thinking about some of my other friends who are guys. like if its ever possable for them to love me.

i would want a reliship with a guy. but i dont know if i can do a long distance one? but in a way i think i am to mature for him and i think thats what is turning me off to want to like him. like you can be trying to be surous and he bust out with some childish stuff. what should i do?

Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

well it seems like you're not in love with him, you're just somewhat attracted to having his attention.. you two shouldn't be more than friends because you don't think he can live up to your seriousness... but you need to accept everyone has a childish side now matter how old they are... really you seem kinda overconfident (no offence)... you should try to talk it out with him and try to explain it... maybe you two can work something out...

Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

sounds like you aren't really happy with him. trust your gut.

Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

if you want a guy to bolt out the door..tell him you love him before he tells you.

Unfortunately, it happens.

Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

I think relish should stay on hotdogs.

Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

Yep

Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

take your time, trust your gut

Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

ahh, men will mature but u can never take away that inner child in us. n if u dont wanna a log distance relationship then dont. if i were that guy n u told me i would understand completely. i know its a tough gamble n ppl these days are hard to trust. by the way I'm in Texas too, wanna hook up...../grin only kiddin

Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

You know what you want more then we do. If your having doubts then you should listen to yourself. You know what will make you happy and what won't. You don't need reassurence from us. If you don't listen to your gut vibe, you will be unhappy later.

Can some one saying i love you cause a reliship to fail?

I think you half answered your own question, there. :)

If you are in the early stages of your would-be (?) relationship, and you're already considering other guys, that is probably a warning sign (I know at the beginning of my current relationship I didn't have a thought or eye for anyone else). It's also probably a warning sign if you find him *constantly* immature. If there is an age difference it's probably unavoidable, but if he's _always_ immature at times when it calls for maturity he is probably a bit young for you. I would say that the commitment needed for a long-distance relationship may not be there - but the only one who can really answer that question is yourself. Good luck. :)