Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

I am 18 and live in new york. My fiance is 23 and is a marine stationed in California. He asked me to check his email the other day, so I did, and I found a picture message sent from his phone that was a day old, so i look at it, and its a picture of a naked girl. She took the picture and sent it to his phone, and he sent it to his email. I don't know if I should bring it up, because I was kind of snooping around, but as the days go on, I'm getting more and more suspicious. His ex also left him a comment on myspace saying "I love you" What am i supposed to think? The pictures that were sent didn't have the girls face in them, so I don't know who it is. But I'm getting very upset and frustrated, and I don't know what to do. He keeps telling me how much he loves me and can't wait to marry me, but then how could he turn around and do that? I just don't get it. What should I do?

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

Confrontation. More likely than not, he is cheating on you.

If he is not guilty - it's still your right to be suspicious.

If he is guilty, dump him.

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

You have to ask him about it. If he is recieving naked pictures of a girl, is that all he is recieving. You deserve to know what is going on. If you are engaged he shoud not be getting those pics...

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

I wouldn't take it by coincidence that you found that picture. Marriage is a HUGE committment and I think these are huge signposts that are warning you about the type of person you are getting involved with.

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

hes cheating on your or talking to another girl in more than just a friendship way... u have no choice you have to bring it up!!!! naked girls and saying i love you

bad bad bad!

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

ahh

i'm sorry

but he's cheating on you i think

you should talk to him

but don't take everything he says,

he will probably lie

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

once a dog...always a dog...

once a cheater...always a cheater...

so you make your math.

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

ask him who is this girl start crying and say are you cheating on me while crying

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

just send him more naked pics of u lol... beat that girl at her own game.... OR u can talk to him about it. he is ur fiance, and u should be able to talk to him....

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

i think you should bring it up now in case he is cheating bring it up b4 things get serious

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

You either ask him who it was or keep your mouth shut. My bet is on the ex.

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

I would probably blow up in your situation.

He thought the pictures were special enough to send to his email?

Thats BS.

Contront him.

And consider ditching him.

You can do better.

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

i don't know I'm sure he been getting naked pics but 4 him to ask u to check u know maybe he doesn't care but u have a right to know OK go 4 it

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

OMG! I think that he is cheating on you and YES you need to bring it up. You are his fiance, he should have nothing to hide. If he gets upset from you looking at his phone, then that is a sign of guilt. That is just too many signs of cheating for you not to say anything. Why the hell is he receiving pictures of a naked girl? Hell ya you need to say something! I dont think that he is ready to get married!

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

Ex's sometimes say 'i love you' because they can say it without fear now that the relationship is over. I wouldn't stress too much about it. It's not like he said it to her.

Do you think the picture message was from someone he knows, or just porn? And if it is someone he knows, do you think he is in a relationship with her, or she is just a sl*t who is seeking his attention, and he was weak enough to want to keep her picture? It's not great, but it doesn't make him a bad person.

You were checking his email at his request, so I think you are in a position to talk to him about the picture message. "I saw that some girl sent you a naked picture to your phone - it was in your email. Is there something I need to know?" His reaction should tell you what you need to know.

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

Wait he asked you to check his email and you were "snooping?" Were you only suppose to look for a specific email? Well the cat is out of the bag now, so you can worry and chew your nails or you can just be honest and tell him how it was you came to find it and how it makes you feel. Don't yell don't freak out be calm and tell him how you feel. I am suspicious of the fact that he get a naked photo to his phone and send it to his email and then asks you to check his email...strange and frankly it almost sounds like he wanted you to find it. Ask him, and if the answer is BS thank your lucky stars that you found out now and not after you said I Do.... And don't fall for the "you are so far away," or "I could be shipped out anyday...."

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

You need to confront him! Calmly tell him that when you checked his email, AS HE ASKED (you were NOT snooping), you noticed this suspicious looking email. You guys can't be afraid to talk to each other about difficult topics like this....marriage is a big deal, and you should be able to trust your future husband enough to talk about such things; if he isn't loyal now, he won't be when the two of you are trying to raise a family.

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

doesnt sound good I know if it was me , I would dump him it only gets worse, Id find out who (ole girl is in the pic first and it wouldnt take me long what's there to wait for ask him know before he has time to make something up ,it strange there on phone and email he would have given the address and number, go girl and dont waste time , you demand it and nip it in the butt, It;ll only get worse lots of luck

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

this is freakin ridiculas, dont listen to these idiots telling you that hes cheating on you and you should dump him. they dont know anything but what you have told them. dont screw up in your real life just cuz of what some nobodies said on the internet. if it bothers you then bring it up to him, but honestly its probably not nearly of a big a deal as you are making it into.

[innocent until proven guilty.]

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

wrong place to meet your fiance. He's in the marine you said. Guys who are far from there wife, girlfriend, fiance, what ever you want to call it is capable of cheating. They do it because their wife is far from them thinking that they wouldn't find out. But, they do eventually right? I think you should bring it up to him. Ask him about the picture if it keeps bothering you so much. Just tell him that you will not go through with the wedding until you know the truth. If he gets mad at you then he's hiding something from you. He has to understand that in order for a marriage to work you need to trust each other and I don't think your relationship with him has that. So, just let him know how you feel about him keeping naked pictures of girls in his email. Joke with him and tell him, Why don't you take a picture of me naked and put it in your email. I mean, you have some other naked girl on yours so why not put mine too. From there you should have your answer whether he is really cheating on you or not.

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

i think your worrying over nothing. guys are guys. specially marines. there just winding themselves UP. about hes ex. i think it just a Innocent phone call. if he were being unfaithful. i doubt if he would so gushing asking to marry you. and things. but if you really want peaces of mind confront him. hope it works out well. good luck.

Marine fiance is recieving naked pics from girls on his phone. what should i do?

ask him about it